If Love Is Kind...

                   ...Then Love Shouldn't Hurt

For Girls Only...

Why are you at this page? Are you here because you're doing a sociology project? Or maybe you just "randomly" found it. You have a million different excuses.

But maybe you're here because something is wrong and you don't know where to start.

You're hurting. Maybe physically, or emotionally, or sexually, or maybe in every way. You have the bruises, the tears, the isolation, the scars to prove that something isn't right. He's doing things that hurt you. But you love him, you're scared, you just don't know what to do.

Are you willing to listen?

Do you think you're being abused? Have you read the abuse signs on this site? Have you answered "Yes" to any of the signs? If so, why are you still doubting what you have to do? If he hurts you, how can you say he loves you? If you makes you cry, how can he make you smile?

Maybe you're.....
madly in love with him. He's the god of your idolatry and you couldn't imagine life without him. Maybe he's been there for years, or maybe just a few weeks. All you know is that he's the ONE and you can't leave him because... well... who else will love you like he does? Where else will you find what you have now?

If you think he's the one for you, you are so wrong.

If he's hitting you, humiliating you, forcing you to consent to his demands, how can you qualify that as "love"? Why are you with someone who hurts you like he does? You can't leave him because you love him too much? Because it'd hurt him? YES, I won't lie; it will hurt to leave, but it won't be fatal. You will survive leaving him... if you stay with him, your odds of survival greatly decrease. There are 6 billion people on this planet (3 billion males). The odds are in your favor in finding someone else... Remember, no guy is worthy crying over, and the one who is will NOT make you cry... Check out the Survivor Section.

Maybe you're
absolutely terrified of leaving him. He threatens to kill himself, or worse, hurt you. This is a very serious situation. Please refer to the legal section and Parents' page for more information on how to handle this dangerous situation.

Whatever is keeping you with him, remember, if he says he loves you, he shouldn't hurt you because Love Shouldn't Hurt!

Please, read this site and protect yourself from abuse!